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If you’re asking youself this question…

Should I Stay

or

Should I Go?

Then get this workbook today! —>

A step-by-step workbook to help you decide if leaving the US is right for you.

Should I Stay? or Should I Go?

A step-by-step workbook to help you decide if leaving the US is right for you.

The Should I Stay or Should I Go Workbook mixes friendly wisdom with vibrant, structured worksheets to guide you through 61 reflection-, research-, and decision-making exercises so you can focus, connect, and make strategic, informed decisions about the next season of your life.

What’s in the workbook?

Screenshots of educational worksheets with colorful designs, including sections on risks, priorities, and personal information, featuring illustrations of animals, plants, and space elements.
Two educational worksheets. The first titled "Imagine it! Write a Postcard" prompts to write a postcard from a new home, with spaces for feelings, a picture, and message, featuring colorful watercolor images of various landscapes and food. The second titled "The Path to Knowing More" guides to explore what is important and necessary before moving forward, with sections labeled "Very Important," "Need to Know Before Moving Forward," "In Progress," and "DONE!"; decorated with images of sandwiches, sushi, and desserts.
  • Risk evaluation frameworks to help you assess different risks and opportunities within the current conditions.

  • Tools to help you identify and hold complexity without getting stuck.

  • Reflection prompts to help name priorities, acknowledge your feelings, and imagine possibilities.

  • Prompts to help you identify and name personal / familial thresholds for leaving.

  • Checklists and worksheets to help you keep track of your research and intentions.

  • Resources and supportive prompts to help you plan the best next-steps for this next season of life, no matter what answer you come to at the end of the workbook.

  • Warm & colorful designs.

  • Writing that combines storytelling with calm, grounded, get-shit-done instructions.

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Worksheets-only packet: Should I Stay or Should I Go?
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Deciding whether you should stay in the U.S. or if you should go can be overwhelming.

We know. We've been there.

So we're sharing our tools with you.

A collage of four colorful worksheets on a black background. The first worksheet asks 'Could I Live There?' with a list numbered 1-10. The second worksheet is a colorful chart of animals with labeled letters A to O and the title 'What Are My Common Responses to Crisis?'. The third worksheet is titled 'Priority Setting' with a coffee cup illustration and circles for prioritizing goals, surrounded by images of coffee cups, a tea steeper, and coffee drinks. The fourth worksheet is titled 'Reality Check - Visas' showing spaces for country, visa type, requirements, timeline, and achievability, with umbrellas and umbrellas illustrations.
A cartoon squirrel holding a colorful book titled "Should I Stay or Should I Go?" in front of a green background.
A cartoon squirrel standing upright holding a colorful book titled 'Should I Stay or Should I Go?' in front of its face. The squirrel has brown and beige fur, big eyes, and is set against a transparent background.

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Frequently Asked Quesitons

  • Yes! Paperback workbooks can be ordered on the homepage or at www.stayorgoworkbook.com/shop. You can also request the book be ordered through your local bookstore.

  • Please check your SPAM folder! The workbook should be available to download immediately after purchasing using the download button in the confirmation screen AND it should be sent in a confirmation email. We have seen a number of these get snagged in people’s SPAM folder, so please check your SPAM.

    If it’s not delivered to the email you provided (via your inbox or SPAM) then please send us a message through the contact form on our website and we’ll sort it out.

  • The Stay or Go Workbook is appropriate for all ages, though geared toward people over the age of 18 and able to make their own legal decisions. It’s derived from our specific political and social commitments to feminism, LGBTQ+ liberation, and racial, and economic justice rooted in the USA contexts we were raised in. We think the prompts will be useful for anyone who gives a shit about being kind to other people, even if you're not upset or worried about the same things we are.

  • No, this book doesn’t provide any simple or clear answers for your very personal decisions! It’s designed to help people decide if they should go or stay.

    It provides steps to direct the should-I-go-or-stay energy into preparing to leave OR rooting in to stay with intention and purpose.

    While the workbook is designed to help people identify where they might want to go and support them in doing the research to determine if a certain country might be viable, this book does not provide legal guidance or an up-to-date list of international visa rules.

    We provide a list of relocation experts and other technical resources at the end of the book as a starting place for your next right steps.

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